Originally Posted By: Jeff223
And to sleep even better: if we were used and they are that self centered they did us a favor walking away.


Jeff,

I wanted to comment on this alone.

It is true I will sleep well knowing I did everything I could once she made me aware of the issues. She chose to just walk away. That will weigh heavily upon her someday. In the back of her mind, I am sure she will wonder if she will finally be on the receiving end.

She will eventually have to deal with breaking her marriage vows to God, breaking her marriage vows to me, committing adultery and hurting someone she allegedly loved.

If I ever get married again, I will be able to stand at that altar knowing I kept my vows last time. When she does it again, if she has not already, she will stand there haunted by the ghosts of what she did and how she disobeyed God's laws.........


RMG


"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"