Hey J, Husband is being a good monkey for now.... tat is good. This however:
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A HUGE part of what has contributed to me staying in this M, I believe, is this very growth. I have always been grateful for the growth that these hard times bring me, and had faith that we were both growing in ways we needed to. I had always chose to believe it was what was meant to be. I'd look at how much I grew, and figure I must've really needed that so my M will benefit now. And there's no doubt I needed to grow, but that never ends. I want a partner who offers the commitment I do, and I haven't felt like my H does. He would try to tell me I was asking for too much, but I see I wasn't asking for enough.
I don't want to sound harsh J, but these are the lessons that we should have learned from our high school and college boyfriends/girlfriends. Maybe even one or two tops from our spouse. However these are not ongoing troughout life lessons. At some point our marriages have to become about to responsible adults who are committed to loving one another and being faithful to that love. Whe do you get that part?
