Hi Nugget, Our W's are extremely selfish right now. My W's one nighter (that appears to be more, but whatever) solidified my realization that we're thru. As for boundaries, you need to decide what yours are. Can't do much about hers. She is only thinking about herself, so you need to set boundaries in order to protect yourself from being a doormat. Honestly, it may change your W's view after her initial anger. Just make them and stick to them.
Me 32 WAW 30 D Bomb 7/9 Separated 7/15 Reiterated bomb 8/12 PA 8/21 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#Post1198643