Mandy, I'm sorry he's still acting like the horse's behind. Until you have moved out of his home, he will continue to hammer at you. He wants you out of is home pronto. If he's cut the cable service, don't be surprised if the electric and water are next. It's time for you and your son to move. Actually, I'm not surprised that he's not brought the constable in to have you evicted for all of the neighbors to see. That may very well be his last triumphant card he plays.
Have you found a place to live yet? It's time to take back your life and move on. I know that you still have some feelings for this bloke, but you've got to open your eyes up wider and come t realize that he's not the man you knew. He's married now and with that comes a wife and I imagine that they both want you gone out of their lives period, but that won't happen with a son in the mix. Although, I suspect he's not going to be around much for his son and this is extremely sad.
Mandy, take your life back, find a place to live and just let go of this man completely. Your son will grow up to be a wonderful man. His sorry @ss father doesn't realize the times he's missing w/his son, but that's okay. This man will reap what he sows along the way.
Take care of yourself and your son.
Mandyloo, snodderly is right, he isn't going to change, he will not be there or his son, he will continue being a horse's ass to you. My advice is to do some decorating to the house before you leave, I would be happy to give you some pointers on that! Move out, get your own place, and ignore him totally.
