Dave, thanks for that. No, I couldn't stand another betrayal. Absolutely no way. This is the last time I am ever going to DB for him. I'm almost certain that if this OW was out of the picture, he would go looking for another.
If we ever get to a reconciliation point then he is going to have to work so hard on reassuing me and trust issues.
Hey, you can have fun at the mall. It's not all shopping as you know. Sit in a coffee shop and people watch for an hour or so. I'm sure you do. Good luck with the meet-up thing. We have nothing like that over here and DB'ers are pretty thin on the ground.
