I've thought a lot about this. WHY would it hurt - it was his choice. But I think I have it figured out. He assumed I'd always be here waiting for him to give me five minutes of his time.....and now he's seeing I'm not so he goes to a back up plan that he knows is safe. still makes me want to vomit.
His actions show he still wants to punish you. The thing is, he's seeing that you aren't taking it any more; I'm sure that makes him angry.
still makes me want to vomit.
