Hi Lisa - thanks for posting - I've posted on your thread before, used to be "toughenough4love" - had to change screen names when computer mixup erased all my posts! Was wondering how you were - sorry to hear about the emails. How long has it been going on? Seems like something you need to get out in the open, unless things with H are so tenuous you think it might run him off. Hard call. If it were just a process of letting go of the OW I would say let him go through it, but this sounds more like things starting up again. Ellie
