You are such an inspiration to me. H has moved out. We had some tough days a few weeks ago. Really ugly but things seem to be coming back. I am trying my best to be yhis friend again. He took off his ring but when I asked for it back he said he isn't ready to give it to me. I asked if I should take mine off he said no. He is coming by tomorrow to finish our taxes. From your point of view should I be lovingly detached? Or should I have fun and flirt? I don't think I can do both?