I need some advice. Since we got home from my parents' last Monday, H has been sleeping at the apt quite a bit. Some nights he's here to put the kids to bed, but others, like last night, he's gone out and not come back. On the nights he's been here, he has left to go the apt very late and come back in the morning. I don't want to keep lying to the kids about where he is, but I don't want to push to tell them about the S either. Am I in denial? I feel like not knowing when he's going to be here is not fair to me or the kids. Is there a way to bring this up to him without initiating a R talk?
