Good for YOU TWO!! I hope I can repeat a ditto about 8 months from now. Have been DBing for 4 months now and things go well for the most part. I know how you feel with no ILY's. It's hard for me not to say them like the book says. My H still doesn't seem re-committed to our marriage but we are still taking baby steps and I'll be happy with that. Any more words of advice? What worked best for you??