I see this is your first post. Sorry to meet you here but as you can see you are not alone.It's a great place to find support and advice.
Why don't you start a thread and give us a few more details about your sitch. Come back here and let us know what it's called so that we can link thro' and see what help we can give.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength