Donna,

re dating just have a sec, in a word: chill

fine, wink (and no more) at people on dating sites, but just chill just a bit...

... or not...

it is just that right now (voice of experience) you are likely to feel a bit victimized by perfectly decent guys doing perfectly ordinary things...

again, hard to explain, just voice of experience...

just chill for a few weeks and then consider whether to rechill, lol

Best,
Oldtimer