Does anyone here think that too much damage has been done for a WAS to not consider reconciliation? I know in my sitch I have hurt my W so badly that it seems so unrealistic to expect her to see me differently. I have to admit that there are just some things that cannot be overcome by love or time.
When I look back at the nightmare I have caused, I ask myself if I would want me back? My honest answer is...probably not. There comes a point when your spouse has taken so many hits that they determine that it is less painful to leave than to stay.
What I can't believe is that I would be so selfish and not see how much damage I was causing. My W has endured such unbelieveable financial hardship and emotional withdrawal by me that she just gave up.
I have to live with the guilt of hurting my W so much and causing the breakup of our family. I do not consider this posting a "pity party" but an admission of my responsibility and to ask those reading if there is a point of "no return"?
Me: 41 W: 40 D5, S4 Bomb Dropped: 7/8/2007 Status: W has moved out with kids 8/25/2007
