I think the trap would be more tempting if I didn't have kids--but I have no interest in involving anyone new into their lives, or my world here at home. I guess it would be more on-par with the meet-up groups; I don't want a full-blown R, and will be very up-front about that.
But I will be cognizant of the danger. With only the one R experience, it would be interesting to see what I can discover about myself, my wants and needs. I have never had any comparison. And it may help make me stronger to realize that the end of a R with H does not mean that I will never even have the chance at a R with anyone in the future, if that is what I decide that I want.
*** Oh, checked your MySpace page--the road racing looks very cool! I would love the adrenaline rush of it. And it was great to put a face to the name :0)
