When to move back in together?

[the girl]

Thanks for the book suggestion, I will buy it.

maybe I should jump over to the 'We're separated, now what?' forum. I just don't know what the situation is. Is he really having a MLC? I asked him about it and he denied it.

He has not responded at all, or even mentioned the email I sent him about what he is going to do to show me I can trust him.

Now I am trying to decide if I should ask him if he has forgotten about it, or if he is thinking about it.

Probably I need to not say anything. Let his actions speak for themselves.

I feel more and more confident about just watching him, waiting to see what he will do. I also am gaining some self esteem, realizing that I don't have to take back a man who treats me poorly. I think this separation has done a universe of good for me.

He came over last night and we had a nice dinner. He spent the night, camped out in our daughter's room, after we had a rather intimate time together. I give him elaborate, full body massages. He never reciprocates. He just takes. I guess I feel like if I don't give something, we will have no relationship at all. He told me he really enjoyed it and thanked me. It was the most positive time we have had in months.

Tonight I am itching to know if he is hanging out with OW...

I need to get a life!

I am thinking that if he drags out this OW thing and keeps contacting her that I may say that I will see other people too. It isn't fair that he is the only one considering his options.

I am feeling stronger than ever. And hopeful. It's scary. I don't want to be hurt again.

The girl