Good point Donna.. hadn't really thought through the possible implications of bringing a mental health pro with you (even if you are practically friends now). Funny you said that about paying her - our MC almost acts like she feels guilty taking money from us, or something. It's the ONLY time she's not the direct, strong, almost in-your-face (in a good way) type person. Sounds like it's similar for you and your IC.

Hope you can find someone soon who can go with you.

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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