Agent99 - no 2x4s here either, just a reminder to be really careful. If it's too easy to come back, he'll either push harder to "feel completely broken up," or he'll come back and then be pi$$ed that it was too easy.
Glad you called him on the calling first thing! (no pun intended). I had to do that a couple of times with my H. He didn't like it much, but I stuck to my guns on that one point, at least.
It actually sounds like a really great time, and I'm glad for it! He didn't just come over to get laid and leave, y'know? He was sweet to you all day, he treated you well. Is it enough forever? No, but at least it wasn't JUST a "booty call."
I'd caution you about letting him leave stuff there "just in case" he spends the night. I wish sooo much that I hadn't done this with my H. It meant he KNEW he was welcome anytime, KNEW I was really unlikely to have "someone" visiting.. I mean really, would I have some guy over with H's razor and shaving cream in the bathroom?? Not that I had ANY intention of having a guy over, but I should have really kept it MY place, and having his stuff there totally went against that. Make him plan it ahead, make him ask - heck even if he starts storing an overnight bag in the car, that's better than you keeping his stuff there to make it easy for him.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
