Hey Bob - hmmm...derogatory remarks...that's tough. Obviously I don't know your thoughts, I only KNOW what you post here. I also know that this is a huge outlet for venting angry thoughts/ideas, etc. So I do take what is posted here with a grain of a salt considering the emotional state of all. Let me put my concern this way: when my parents are upset with each other, I know they are upset with each other and they don't have to say anything to let me know. And I do, whether it's right or wrong, form opinions about who to side with. All of that happens without any verbal communication from my folks to me about their issues. Generally speaking if anyone is thinking the thought it will get communicated in some manner. So if your thought is "she's dead to me" this may get communicated to your children without you even knowing that you are commuicating it. I'm inclined to think that you say this out of anger in the moment and that when push comes to shove you really would do anything in the world to put your m back together again. If you aren't saying anything negative about your W outside of this site, and if you aren't truly thinking these negative things constantly, this probably isn't a huge issue. I just thought I would mention it in case it was.
Yes, a teacher. I was in the business world for 10 years, working as a corporate trainer and just switched over to teaching last year. I teach HS students literature, grammar, film literacy and the art of public speaking...it's quite fun and I regret not making the switch sooner, but at the same time don't regret my time in the business world.
Hope you're having a great weekend! Em
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
