Hey tielbeagle! Congrats and all my best wishes for your relationship. It has been about 3 months for me (H started "re-bonding" with me). It still is scary because I catch glimpes of my h relapsing every now and then.
He has finally agreed to do some communication work in our relationship but I have to be so careful not to push. I have so much printed info on communication stuff and my h is really not a reader, it is so frustrating for me at times...ARRRGHHHH! LOL.
Did you get the video tapes and if so how is that going for you and h? I still haven't been able to "motivate" my h to listen to the audio tapes of Dr Phil's Relationship Rescue book. Both my h and I are working crazy shift work plus he works a second job that requires him to travel on his 4 days off .
His second job has been a big issue for me but I have to let go and allow my h to set his own priorities even when our relationship suffers as a result (and I feel hurt). I am working on my life not revolving around his so much and that is so hard especially when my h wants so much independance in his own life.
Anyways, glad to hear things are going better for you. Believe your h's actions and it sounds like you are trying to be patient with a lot. My thots and prayers are with you. Take care and God bless!!!
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