So I agree, as long as you are protected by law, the house should be all yours. Why did you put her name on it?
Because we were married, and as long as we were married, everything was "ours." I wanted her to feel like an equal in that regard -- apparently she really took that to the extreme by thinking she deserved an equal share of it in the D. She actually believes she earned it (WAS's really are looney!).