GD - sounds like you're getting there, but I think you should go with what's legal in your state. No more, no less. It's not about the mortgage, who pays which bill... if you owe her support (child or spousal), pay it. If not, don't. Let/make her figure out the rest. Take the emotion out of it for a minute and look at it as a PURELY business decision. I think it'll be quite clear what to do.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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