Not sure why I'd want to pay for her mortgage payment if she doesn't deserve it or isn't entitled to it. That's kind of the point I'm trying to make.
I will set up trusts for the kids, but W will not get squat from these or anything else. Our child support is waived, since we both make equal amounts in terms of our earning potential and we have agreed on joint legal and physical custody of the kids. I just paid off her $23,000 in student loans last week -- that's the last thing she's getting from me.