Firstly I dont think she likes her current situation at all. She would like to come home but there are reasons she cant yet.
1 is she has not been able to forgive herself yet and will be very unsure of me and whether I am able to forgive her and not bring up her A everytime we argue. 2 Is getting back together for convenience a mistake. Can she find me attractive again? Will it last ?, can she trust herself ?
She dose not want me to move on right now , she has shown that , she wants some more time. With this there will be no guarantee because she has no idea right now herself of the answers.
My job is to give her time , get on with my life as best I can and try and build up that attraction.
I think that is a great analysis, Dave -- you're always good at doing this!
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Last thing I did was when she dropped D off , I could tell she was down due to issues at work. So that evening I txt her asking if she could handle a visiter. She txt back OK. So I called with chocolate and something to drink. Gave her the time to talk about what was on her mind. Worked out real well.
I can imagine -- that sounded like a smart and thoughtful move on your part. Very well played, my friend!
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I think that doing stuff she does not expect and not too frequently , try and get some fun back .
