I can obsess with the best of em so I know what you mean. My W did/is doing the bar thing too. I absolutely hate it with a passion, but there is nothing I can do about it. She is calling you and wanting to spend time with you. Man that is so awesome. Sounds like dating to me, and that is exactly what I was hoping would happen in my sitch, it just didnt work out like that at all. If it had, I think we might have had a better chance of it.
Just one question. Your thread title is piecing after D, I didnt realize you were actually divorced already, is that right? If so, can you tell me how you went about getting her into your life again, bout how long it took, and all that? You can post it on my thread if you want to, I do need some inspiration from time to time, as you know Im in the middle of a D now myself.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.