As I was reading your last response, my thought were "so what." So what if she does all that. Accept what is going on and don't let it bug you. You made a choice as to how you will procede. As I said before, you can change your mind any time.
One other thing I have noticed. Dude, you can obsess with the best of 'em. I say that because I have been there. You try and analyze every move, but in the end, there is nothing to analyze.
