I agree it can be a problem but it is alot less than before,she went with her cousin for a little while.Sunday she wanted to go to a movie so we went and ate went to a movie then put up the pool.Monday I was at work and she stopped and wanted to go shopping so we went shopping and out to eat,we took the kids.Other than that I have just been doing my thing and hanging back. The other night she knew i was upset she was going to the bar and I told her I felt she was going to see this OG. She denied and i said thats fine but if she is interested in him she needs to deal with that and I will go on.She got upset then and denied over and over that anything was going on.I just said whatever just be careful.So the next day is when she wanted to go to movie and do all the other stuff.After putting up the pool and cooking out she even stayed and watched TV while I was outside.She comes over and makes her self at home for sure.