Nomopo's Thread - Is something happening to me?

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Nomo,

Hello my friend, long time no see but I've been thinking about you.

As I was reading your feelings and talking about the line you are approaching, it struck me that that line is very similar to the one your W has already crossed. We learn with DB that the feelings are gone and it will take a lot of work to get them back and thus the DB practices are put into motion. So, I guess what I'm thinking is why is your line different than hers? Why are your feelings any different?

I'm sounding confrontational, not at all. Just thinking that the same rules apply for all of us. Someone wrote that earlier-I would try because at the core of our beliefs with DB is that feelings grow and wane and grow again.

I'm starting to see marriage and love as a journey, not a destination.