When I say the things I say to you, I seek out opinions of others. My goal is to help you. The folks whom I sought out have been agreeing with my assessment. Of course, you are tired. I totally understand that. But of course, you can be angry and stay. I was angry and still was trying. If you weren't angry, then there would be something wrong with you.
As for the pizza incident, you're missing the point. Why did you have to have something else? What point was it you were trying to make? She thought about you and you turned her down. So in her mind, and anyone who would like to correct me feel free, it seems that you have been trying to get her to you and when she finally makes some sort of offer, your get angry. Anger doesn't mean you yell and scream. But from where I am sitting you were saying screw you.
Randy, I say these things because I was there, and in some ways, I still am, but at this point I am farther away from it, so in retrospect, I can see things. I mentioned the movie Anger Management. The premise is that you do not have to appear or act outwardly angry, but it can be there.
Finally, you are so ex-o-centric. You need to live. You need to do what is right for Randy without her. That will solve yuur problems.
