I would just tell her that you aren't answering those questions because of how things are now...when and IF you BOTH decide to work on things without anyone else involved then you will be prepared to talk about your feelings (or lack of) but until then...NONE OF HER BUSINESS...because if...IF she truly didn't want to risk losing you she would be working with you....right now she is willing to take the risk...so why reassure her that you are still waiting and still love her???....let her wonder for a change?
