Sorry if the last post was a bit confusing but company showed up and had to get off in a hurry. The party went well,I didn't hang around XW too close.They have to think about good times. She stayed until after the last person left.I thought it was kind of funny,the smal things like last night XW brought pizza back from shopping and asked if I had eaten,I told her no that I would fix something in a minute so she offered the pizza and I told her thanks but that was ok,I would get something and she got almost mad because I wouldn't take it. I finally did but just that little thing of her thinking I didn't want something.To bad it took 2 1/2 years for me to get strong enough to figure it out.