I just meant that WASs leave and the ones that stay and work on themselves and their R will win even if it is in another R.Well yesterday XW took the kids shopping for my b-day and when they got back she said she had invited my family and her family to a cookout for my b-day tonight and I guess it will be at my house.I heard from one of my d that she told someone she was doing it because she felt bad about something but d didn't know what.I called XW and told her I appreciated it but if she didn't want to do it she didn't have to and she said she wouldn't if she didn't want to.Since the older d decided to spend the night at her moms I said no more staying at home.i called a friend of mine that went through a D also.he said the same things as here.They are thinking of getting back together. He dates and it is driving her crazy but she is with OM.We went to a couple of bars and had a really good time.Times have sure changed,there was a girl that had tattoos on her nipples,she showed them to me in the bar,crazy.I am backing off and letting the moves fall to her.Myfriend encouraged her to go with her BF this weekend,he says even when they want to come back make them beg to come back.He calls it getting control back,gota go
