Well you have had a crazy day!! How are you doing?

I see a lot of postives here:

- he sounds jealous about your activities - like you are able to get on with your life. This is a postive thing. Now you need to let him know that it's HIM you want to build your life with...not the other guys that he assumes you are dating.

- I am very proud of you for saying no to dinner. Does he really think that he can just bounce in and out of your life on a whim? I think you are well on your way to telling him otherwise. This is a difficult thing to communicate, but you are doing well!

- Just keep thinking about the empty wine bottle! He thinks he can have his cake and eat it too - you deserve so much more! I think the wine bottle was a positive today because it gave you a kick in the pants \:D You are doing the right thing. His tears are good too!

Hang in there Faith! You seem to be doing ok. I know that you are going to be great!

Em

Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley