glad you had a good evening. yeah, ouch about the $ conversation, that is never easy. but hey, just keep doing what you are doing...sounds like things are going pretty well, and even if this is a minor step back, doesn't sound like its a full fledged turning away or anything. knock wood. I agree with the pp and say I think she'll likly lick her wounds and then get over it. just keep acting as you normally would.
lol at the virgin comment. seriously.
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M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Well she seemed to get over the money issue. Got one of my semi-normal phone calls tonight with 30 minutes notice if I would like to come over and join the two of them for dinner. Dinner went well and did the normal everyday type talking, then I had to bail out, I had joined a bowling league, by the way our team sucks, lol.
So I suppose this means status quo and I will just keep doing my own thing while she process whatever it is up in that mind of her processing.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I just keep thinking about how young she is. I know it is not an excuse but maybe she is trying to see if she can do something on her own. I am not familiar with the WAW syndrome, but I bet seeking independence has something to do with some of them. Your sons are so cute!
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Well I have never stopped her from doing what she wants. I suppose if she truly wants independence, she will have it, that choice is up to her. I think it is a very selfish way to have it, when it should be possible while married.
Then again, maybe kids are happier with two independent parents who are divorced. Had to throw some sarcasm in today !
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I have decided that GAL when it involves your 8 year old son sucks. I took him out to play putt putt golf today and lost, and then he rubs in it big time, kills the dad ego thing, lol.
On the home front, not much going on where the wife is concerned. I on the other hand have actually started going out and doing stuff other than just home and work. She did ask if son and I were doing our normal weekend BBQ, guess who asked if she could join us. So she is sticking with inviting herself over or inviting me to her place often, must be because I am so handsome and cuddly.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I tried that about 2 weeks ago, got turned down. I think she likes it this way and on her terms for now. Actually didn't turn me down meanly or anything, she just said "I don't think so" and I let it drop.
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M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
