Quote: So are my chances better if I tell her to make a choice or just keep spending time and seeing what happens?
at this point you are not in a position to ask her to make a choice...however you can choose whether or not you want to continue to wait around to see what happens...
whether or not there is another person in the pic at this time seems irrelevant..
I know that to you it is not irrelevant..but if you can take a step back and look at the time you are spending together as "family" time then it should not matter...if however you are looking at the time you are spending together as leading toward the two of you being together it's a different thing..but still in the end...you are not in a possition to ask w to make a choice...you are the one that needs to do the choosing...wait and see or acept the status quo.
