You can drive yourself nuts with this stuff. And generally, what you think will be wrong. My ex used to say that she wasn't seing OM and I know I wanted to believe, but guess what, she was. I let it consume me and at times was a real SOB, shoving it in her face. That did me no good. It was because I worried about every lettle thing she did. You have no control over her. Let it go. My ex always had me over...it meant she wanted the family setting and nothing more. To this day, she has been seeing OM for 3 years. My kids have seen him twice. And the last time was 8 or 9 months ago. I could make up what it means, but all it does is hurt me. So you need to stop and get your own life. Someone told me the other day when I find someone, my ex will run back. That may or may not be true. But really, what does it matter. The person we need to find is ourselves. And as I have said before, if we do that, none of what they do matters.
