Well X asked me to keep the kids last night because she needed some time,I don't know what was going on but she didn't get home till who knows when.I tried to be supportive and didn't ask her what was going on.I did ask her if their was someone else and and she said absulutly not and she would do as promised and let me know.This was tough.We talked alittle this afternoon and she said I was pushing her again.She did say that I had changed for the better but she hadn't and wasn't ready for a R with me or anyone.She wants to keep contact going but doesn't want me to push her.I have to continue to work on that.