WAW filing for D

[dlt1]

I picked up some stuff at the house. W was working, so I didn't have to deal with her. Got some sheets, towels, pots, pans, cooking spices, phones, luggage and my recliner. There is just so much we have to divide up. I did for get my keg tap (need it for next weekend). Well, I got things situated at my place and started filling in the numbers on the financial declarations sheet. Will know more when I discuss with LF, but looks like she is not going to be happy. I have nearly twice the cc debt and there is more equity in the house than I thought.
W called as I wrapped up. I had gotten the cable bill, marked it as paid, and wrote a note saying she needs to get the bills switched as soon as possible to her name (she's had them all week). She asked if somewthing was wrong. wtf? Simply said no, it just looked like she had not doen that, and I wanted them in her name. Told her to let me know when it's done. I swear, by Tues or Wed if she has not, I'll cancel from my end. Just one more selfish little quality of W showing through. Anyway, then she asked when we could get together to go over everything else. Settled on Sat after Labor Day. I said we should go through the house for 5-6 hours and just pack my stuff as we go and leave that in teh garage for now. Then we could address the bigger things and hopefully it would not seem undaunting. She agreed. I made no mention that the bigger things would be addressed in a formal settlement proposal connected to the divorce petition.
I am torn b/c I see what my fair share is, but she is going to be hurt. Definitely another confrontation for me to be in. I am fairly certain we'll end up in court and there will be absolutley no chance of friendship or at least comfortable social meetings. But then I remember, that's on her, not me. She will make me out to be the bad guy. Won't even consider that she brought us here. Yeah, that makes me get over it a little quicker.