Thanks everyone! You guys are awesome with all of your support!
Dave,
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at least now you can move on with your life and this experience will be of great value to you going forward.
This is absolutely true -- I'm getting closure myself, and I am young enough that I can really benefit from this experience in a new relationship. A blessing in disguise, I guess!
Thanks for being such a great source of advice and support -- you've been an awesome DBing asset for me!
christa,
Thanks for the words of support -- always greatly appreciated! How are things with your H? Last I checked, you were on a positive path to reconciliation. Is this still the case?
Heim,
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That's right, GD. If you were a chick, I'd go out with you.
Hmmmm. Thanks, I think...
You've been a great support for many people on these boards, Heim. Your wit is unparalleled (except maybe for Nomo!). It has been great getting to know you and having you here as a friend. Keep up the constant reflection, monitoring, and all that jazz! You're doing great, buddy!
Donna,
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I just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about you, and telling friends what an amazing person you are.
Awe, come on now! If I have been great, it is because I've stood on the shoulders of DBing giants! (tweeked Thoreau quote)
Seriously though, thanks for being so kind and supportive. You've kept my PMA going strong! BTW, any of those friends of yours hot and single...
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Please let me know if you end up doing the Lindy anywhere in the tri-state area around NYC...I've been cuttin' the rug around home for practice!
I definitely will! I've never been anywhere in New England aside from JFK airport, so if I get the opportunity to go I'll definitely let you know. Have you found any Lindy lessons in your area? Hope so, and if not, Charleston not a bad second choice (and integrates well with Lindy Hop!).
SD,
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I know it sounds strange, but I envy you.
You're right -- that does sound strange!
You are an awesome person, SD. You're very clever, knowledgeable, apparently quite handsome (according to Still's friend!), educated, etc. You're going to be just fine no matter what happens with your M. And, to add meringue (sp?) to the list makes you even more of a catch for those hot Florida women. The envy can work both ways, I guess!
I've been keeping up with your sitch, too -- interesting new developments via discovery of W's computer adventures. You're handling things very well despite these and other recent discoveries. Know your boundaries and your goals. You'll come out of this better than ever, and hopefully W eventually will too!
Kat,
Thanks for continuing to be here for me. It has been great to get to know you and to have you as a friend. I like what I've seen from you lately in your own sitch -- keep us posted on everything!
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And I think you and Heimlich would make cute dancing partners.
Okay, but he's going to have to be the follow (hear me Heim -- I know you're into me, but we've got to keep this a "friends only" R). Heim's got to learn Lindy, though -- I'm not doing any fox trot or other formal ballroom dancing!
CVA,
Didn't you know Kat was kind of crazy?!
Okay, everyone. Just want to tell you all that I'm thinking about moving over to the "Divorced, But Not Done" forum real soon. I'm not quite done yet, but am trying to detach as much as possible and focus on me and the kids, while still leaving the door cracked open. We'll see if I can get some great advice on how to do this from people over there.
It has been a pleasure growing with you all (and others who weren't addressed in this post). I will continue checking in with you all, so don't start getting teary-eyed on me now (you know you were!)!
