Is there any way to share what we've learned to help them? Because neither of them is the devil...they are just like every other couple on the planet that has to work through these things.
That's a tough one. Great subject to bring up for discussion though. I am looking forward to everyone's ideas. Btw... that is really great that you and your H are able to talk about this.
Are they proactive types in other areas of their lives?
Are there any books you and your H have both taken a lot from? If so, maybe you could give them as gifts to the two of them as they are making this move together.... as a show of respect to, and celebration of, the seriousness of their R as they take a step like that. You could each write a few things in a card.
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Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
Hope you're having a nice weekend so far.