Well, I did end up sending her a short email later yesterday, letting her know that I will not abandon her, do not want the divorce, and letting her know of my 180 changes (without referring to it as such). Did not let on to her that I am aware of the A, as I really want her to come clean on it, and I don't think I could let her back in at some point if she doesn't admit to it on her own. Didn't mention Retrouvaille perse', but did make mention of some promising couples programs I have found. She responded only with a cryptic, "don't do this to me."
My sister-in-law came out for a visit last night and basically confirmed everything is true. In fact, W has told her and her own best friend to never speak to her again because they called her out on the A. Said W has become venomous, selfish and deceiving of everyone close to her....and this guy is a dirt troll! Argh!
