Puddle, your welcome. Yes, timing is the biggest thing. and I would agree it would fall on barren ground for you now. my DB counselor partially advised against my letters, but I felt it was right. I don't believe that the letters did much at the present time that he read them, but I think after time went by and he witnessed my changes that the letters did serve a purpose. I really wanted him to understand that my changes were not about him, but about God.

Definitely look forward Puddle! You still have every reason to hope, no matter how dim the light!


Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."