OMG, we have to avoid getting pulled into these arguements!
But how do we stop worrying about our kids when we entrust them to people who are in MLC mode? I just cannot wrap my head around it.
My BFF said that I should trust my H, that nothing bad would happen to my kids, he wouldn't let it. I guess that is the truth but it is like handing them over to an irresponsible and immoral teenager at times.
There is no way he can compare your parenting skills to his. He is dazed and confused. His comment about the OW was a low blow and should not even be dignified. How dare he say such a thing?
I agree, 14-15 year olds may be able to babysit, but I only allow them to sit at night if their parents are home. I have seen 14 year old girls' faces on milk cartons, so I say that is OK only for a while, a little afterschool or maybe to go to the store, but not all night if drinking is involved, no. What's the point if it is his night anyways? Grfff!
Find a zen place. Everything will be OK. The fog will clear and you/ we will be better off after this whole experience.
Last edited by mkultra; 08/25/0705:00 PM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."