A favor

[Valentine]

Always, as usual, a brilliant post. You are so deep, mama!

You are sooo right...Dr. Luv did you a favor. Now you find out all this stuff about him. You have the foresight to see how staying would have made you a mess---now you have learned compassion for him....wish I could say I was there...

You point out something so profound:

I see so many here acquire new hobbies, get new jobs, go back to school, strengthen bonds with children, focus on the home, celebrate birthdays and holidays, start businesses, contribute to the world. Could we have done this with someone going through a crisis in our nest? Did their leaving, which was so painful, actually a FAVOR?

You are so right about that.

thank you, thank you, thank you for pointing out that obvious fact.

Love,
Valentine