My D will be 16 next month. DD is a lot like H and she is running in the only way she can right now - keeping herself so busy so can't think. She provided me with a schedule of school, homework, crew, and job which provides little free time. I approved it because last year during her "free" time she ended up everywhere (mall, school friends houses) and I could tell she didn't want to be home alone. She has gone with groups of people which included boys and does TM with boys but she has only gone to one dance. I want to get into her head and I think that she feels that I am being unfaithful or disloyal, pushing her dad out. Plus, it is probably scary to her...thinking about a "new" dad (haven't kicked old dad out but he does not contact her in any way) and she may not want to trust anyone else because they may walk out on her just like her dad did. I don't know if this is what she is thinking but it would be what I would be thinking.
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing
