Randy,

From where I sit, it appears that you are in total obsession mode. It is my belief that it translated to the party of your interest. If my ex asked me today if we could work on things, I would. However, I don't look at her with wanton eyes. You are afraid that if you back off, you will lose her. But as it is, she is comfortable and calling all the shots. She has to do nothing. Remember, she left you and hung with someone else.

IMP