Hi BP- How old is your D? I am not good at psycho-analysing but I think you asked the right questions. I don't think it is wrong to have a friendship/aquaintance with this man. You can not live in a bubble. Does your D not have any male friends? When you get the opportunity, just explain the situation to her and let her know that nothing has changed. I am sure she will understand and even accept sitting near this gentleman at the upcoming plays.
