I know that is true and I started that last night,I was talking to X about going somewhere for Memorial Day and she said she didn't really want to go anywhere.
I told her I thought it might be nice for all of us to get away.She said something about staying here and going camping,well I assumed she meant she was talking
about taking the girls and going with her brother and his family.I told her that if she did I would make plans and go somewhere myself,she got real
defensive and said well if thats what you want to do.I told her she needed to let me know if we were going to do something together or not and I would
do something else if we weren't so we will see what happens.We spend alot of time together now and get along fine.I hope that she will take the next step someday.