I am alot in the same place,I still have my doubts and get jealous I just don't let her see it.Theres this one woman that flirts with me and she is married, it is more that she is nice than anything would ever happen but my X acts like she is jealous of her and then the other day my daughter was playing on the compt. and X went in there and looked up all my past history and made some comment about it,so she is checking around.We haven't been intimate since we split,oh she flirts alittle but I try not to bring it up.I guess one thing that bugs me is that she never says bye,either on the phone or when I leave or she leaves and I guess it's no big deal.I figure she either doesn't care that we are leaving each others company or she misses it.