SD, has come a long way in this process and certainly knows of what he speaks. Dave, great that your W is showing her LL. Now the hard part, what does the rabbit need to see outside of her hole to stay a little longer? I am glad the gift was finally received well. But what else might you be able to do to show her thank you for your AOS? I would guess this is the exact question you are pondering, but I have no clue how to answer other than ask again, because this is something that I am struggling with. What about a role reversal? She comes to cook, ask her switch roles, you cook and she relaxes with kids and takes care of clean up with the kids? Its kinda like asking her to stay.