I think you have to be VERY careful here. One of the factors that precipitated my h's MLC [it would have happened for some reason] was him loisng his job. Men, in general, seemed more defined and bound up with their careers and than women.
The loss of a job is awful, and it is sooo important that he gets out of any victim mode. So much that I see here on these boards,is a failure of the WAS, on so many levels, to take responsibility for their life and decisions.
The job loss may have been unfair, in his view, but it was his actions that precipitated it, and he presumably knew that he was working for an organisation that did not permit this.
